Choices in Life

Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you or disappoint you.




But they can’t prevent you from moving on.


No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. On every turn of life, you will always have a choice. And that choice can be your power.

Happy New Year 2010

Good Morning...On this fresh new day of the fresh New Year, get inspired by life. Get inspired by the possibilities for love and achievement, for friendship and fulfillment.



Get excited about the opportunities for growth and rich experience that come with every turn of events. Get excited about living in a world that's filled with abundance in every direction.


Get passionate about making a difference in your own life and in the lives of those around you. Get passionate about expressing and fulfilling those dreams that are uniquely yours.


Right now, throughout your whole being, feel how truly good life can be. Carry that goodness with you as you move forward and create a bright new future.


Give meaning to each moment. Give the best of yourself to everything you do.


Get inspired, get excited, get motivated, get busy and get going. Take the very real opportunity to make this the most outstanding year you've ever experienced.

Happy New Year 2010

An Unlived Life

I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loose my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise.



I choose to risk my significance to live; so that which comes to me as seed goes to the next as blossom and that which comes to me as blossom, goes on as fruit.

Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says: "This is real me" and when you have found that attitude, follow it.

Forget

Forget about the days when its been cloudy, but don't forget your hours in the sun. Forget about mistakes that you can't change now, but don't forget the lessons that you've learned.

Forget about the times you've been defeated, but don ' t forget the victories you've won. Forget about misfortunes you encounter, but don't forget the times your luck has turned

Forget about the days when you've been lonely, but don ' t forget the friendly smiles you've seen. Forget about the plans that didn't seem to work out right, but...Don't forget to Always Have A Dream

Keep Smiling

No One Teaches

No one was ever really taught by another. Each of us has to teach himself. The external teacher offers only the suggestion which rouses the internal teacher to work to understand things. Then things will be made clearer to us by our own power of perception and thought, and we shall realize them in our own souls. That realization will grow into the intense power of will.

Change is Welcome

If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain. Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.



None of us knows what the next change is going to be, what unexpected opportunity is just around the corner, waiting a few months or a few years to change all the tenor of our lives. We live in a moment of history where change is so speeded up that we begin to see the present only when it is already disappearing.


If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living.The universe is change; our life is what our thoughts make it.

Welcome criticism

When you are sincere in your efforts, you have nothing to fear from criticism. For when you are sincere, criticism can make you stronger and more effective.

Listen eagerly to those who disagree with you. Seek to genuinely understand their perspectives.
Don't get caught up in the need to prove you are right. Focus instead on more fully understanding what is true, what is workable, and what is best for everyone.

The willingness to be open to criticism is one of the surest signs that you're on a successful and authentic path. If you feel the need to avoid or evade or ignore your critics, it may well be time to re-evaluate your efforts.

Intelligently responding to the doubts of others will reduce your own doubts and help your confidence grow. From the criticism, you can gain much valuable and useful information.
Welcome the criticism, and respond with sincere gratitude. Being challenged is one of the most enriching experiences you can have.

Do Less

If a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking, If there is something I can do? Think up something appropriate and do it.
Do Less Thinking, and pay more attention to your heart. Do Less Acquiring, and pay more attention to what you already have. Do Less Complaining, and pay more attention to giving. Do Less Controlling, and pay more attention to letting go.

Do Less Criticizing, and pay more attention to complementing. Do Less Arguing, and pay more attention to forgiveness. Do Less Running Around, and pay more attention to stillness. Do Less Talking, and pay more attention to silence.

Let fear go

Fear is powerful, and yet it is fragile. Though it can stop you cold, fear can be gone in an instant when you decide you've had enough of it.


Fear is a very effective way for you to get your own attention. Then as soon as you're fully aware of a fear and what it has to say, you have no more use for it.

Let the fear advise you and prepare you, and then just let it go. It is nothing more than a thought over which you have full control.

When fear is what holds you back, there's a quick way forward. Accept the fear, feel it, learn from it, and then drop it completely from your mind.

By letting go of fear, you transform it into courage. In this way, you put the power of that fear to positive use.

Boldly step through each fear, then move on past it. And feel the strength that you've just gained.
 

Do Your Best

We often say that we want a peaceful life. We wish to be at a place where there is no noise, no trouble, or no hard work.But this does not actually mean Peace. To be in the midst of all chaos of life, and still be calm in your heart is what "peace" is.

Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams.

Together we can change the world!

Believe in yourself and in your dream though impossible things may seem, Someday, somehow you'll get through to the goal you have in view.



Mountains fall and seas divide before the one who in his stride. Takes a hard road day by day sweeping obstacles away.


Believe in yourself and in your plan. Say not - I cannot but, I can. The prizes of life we fail to win, because we doubt the power within.
 
 

Wake up

If you want to make your dreams come true, wake up.


Wake up to your own strength. Wake up to the role you play in your own destiny. Wake up to the power you have to choose what you think, do, and say.

Look around the unlimited opportunities awaiting.Catch them up. Choose the right opportunity that makes your dreams come true. Never compromise for portion of your dreams come true. if you dream then achieve 100% of it.



We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope. Feel Good and Go ahead with winning attitude, Success is yours. Lets start the Game!!!



Wish you all Success.



:)

The measure of life...

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;You can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

Don't count the years, count the memories.... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!

Effort is a blessing

Difficult is nothing more than an arbitrary judgment. Effort is effort, and you can do it if you choose.

A great achievement requires much effort. Yet that effort is difficult only when you see it as such.

Instead of obsessing over how difficult or easy it is, just do it. Focus on the result and, what's even more important, your reason for making it happen.

Every effort is a blessing. For effort enables you to live the life you choose to live.

You have the priceless opportunity of being able to do what it takes. Put joy in the effort, whatever it may be, and reap the rewards of making a difference.

Welcome the effort and all the value it gives you the opportunity to create.

Not being able to do everything is no excuse for not doing everything you can.

I Will Learn

I'm independent of good or bad opinions of others.

If I feel depressed, I will learn to cheer up.
If I feel sad, I will learn to laugh.
If I feel ill, I will learn to be healthy.
If I feel fear, I will learn to plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior, I will learn to look up to myself.
If I feel uncertain, I will learn to raise my voice.
If I feel poverty, I will learn to think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent, I will learn to think of my past success.
If I feel insignificant, I will learn to remember my goals.
I will learn to be the master of my emotions.
I will learn to change.

Who make a difference?

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards.

They are the ones who care for you.
Only those who care, make a difference.
To make a difference to others, care for them.

Laugh about your mistakes,

But, learn from them.

Joke over your troubles,

But, gather strength from them.

Have fun with your difficulties,

But, overcome them.

That's the way to live LIFE.

Believe Self When You Are In Troubles

"You have to believe in yourself when no one

else does. That's what makes you a winner."

- Venus Williams

In many respects life is what we make it. It is our personal psychological attitude that defines our abstract level satisfaction or otherwise with our lives. Thus if we are an optimist we will see the good aspects of our environment, whilst a pessimist will only see the bad - thus the same environment is perceived differently.


When you find the world around you as dark, it never means the world itself is in dark. If you find no other way to move forward in your way to reach your destination, then create a new way. It’s your way of seeing that looks dark enough. Change your sight. Look possibilities to brighten up your living environment. Opportunities ware every where and they can be catch able when you search for them.


See when you have any problem, then try to discuss with any friends. They all try to convince you that it’s not at all a problem or atleast they may try to say its not a big deal. Why? Why don’t they find the problem as big as you see? Try to listen to your own problem with your ears from your mouth. You just spell out your problem. Define it in simple sentence. You even don’t need to think much about the solution. As you hear it, your mind analyses the problem data and triggers with certain possible solution(s). Don’t go on filtering each possibility so that after some time later you end up with no hope that your problem can’t be solved.


But... But.. But.. Before you analyze your problem go to a cool place like a garden or park or try to be near some green plants around you. Your eyes must see a green layout wherever you see. And have some snacks into your stomach. Because your brain to function well it needs some source of energy. Until then don’t think anything about your problem. Just be cool and find a place, have some thing to eat in your hands and then start clearing your confusions.


First of all the things remove your fear. You fear about what going to happen next. At any time if we fear means you are imagining some thing big. When you know the reality then nothing can get fear in you. You always fear for what happened yesterday and that may happen tomorrow. You never live today with such fears in mind. It’s time for Clarity in your Perception. Have clearly defined your visions and problems. We all know how to make a straight line look small; just draw another long straight big line beside it. So when you start seeing the big problems ahead to reach your goals, your current problems look small and very small.

"Lack of will power has caused more failure than lack of intelligence or ability."

- Flower A. Newhouse

Sri Rama's Principles for Happy Life

1. Remain wakeful and make a constant conscious effort to speak the Truth with your physical and mental organ of speech.


2. Sound health is a very useful aid in one's spiritual progress. Thus try to keep your physical body healthy by eating properly and exercising regularly.


3. Chant constantly the name of God with each breath in and out, faithfully and devotedly keeping your goal in mind and remaining wakeful.


4. Avoid the habit of taking intoxicating drugs or alcohol which gives rise to lethargy.


5. No power on earth can take away my cheerfulness, courage and joy. Let this conviction be an inseparable part of your life. Try to always remain cheerful and happy.


6. As far as possible try to be helpful and charitable to others with your physical actions, beneficial positive thoughts and agreeable speech. Do not hurt any one's heart.


7. Holy company, righteous thoughts the study of the sacred scriptures and good behavior are the four things to be practiced respectfully in life always.


8. No matter what inconvenience and pain you may have to undergo, never ever hate others, especially your near and dear ones. Make a continuous effort not to be disturbed, disappointed and restless.


9. Leave aside laziness. With enthusiasm and regularity observe the disciplines of the spiritual practices and other observances for the complete development of the personality.


10. With the remembrance of God and a pure, guileless and cheerful smile, try to perform your daily activities in the Light of Fearlessness, Unity and Bliss of that Supreme Being.



A life lived - based on these ten principles will become enlightened and perfectly happy!

Challenge Life

Life is largely a matter of expectation. If you want to succeed, you must expect to succeed. Expectation energizes your goals and gives them momentum. When you believe something good can happen, it will happen

Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does he give them the opportunity to be patient? If he prays for courage, does God give him courage, or does he give him opportunities to be courageous? If someone prayed for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does he give them opportunities to love each other?

Look people in the eye, don’t stare, don’t be so intense, laugh more, smile more, if you smile too much people won’t take you seriously.“You have a good word for everybody”.

There are no problems, only solutions, no obstacles only challenges. Try, try again, keep trying, if you had any talent at all you would have made it by now, why don’t you find something else to do. Rise above it all, take a breather, be realistic, pay attention, heal yourself. See, the problem with you is. . .

Happiness is reachable, no matter how long it lasts .

We should stop making our lives complicated.

Life is short

Break the rules

Forgive quickly

Laugh constantly

And never stop smiling,

no matter how strange life is.

Life is not always the party we expected to be ,

but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

Life always gives u the best

:)

You are the Creator

What will you become in the future will depends a lot on what you are doing to yourself now. You don't need a fortune teller to graze into a crystal ball and tells you what your future life will be.

Notice when you are asked a kid what they want to be when they grow up. Each kids will have their own different aspiration. One may want to be a doctor, another a lawyer, nurse, teacher or another vocation. Those who are not sure of what they want will purse nothing and end up not achieving anything as adult. Can you see that you are creating your own self in the future.

You can be brilliant, be number one, be unforgettable or be interesting as long as you believe that you are the creator of yourself. Once you know what you want to achieve, each little step you take daily will bring you closer to your goal. You are in charge of yourself and your life. The books you have read, the television programs that you chose to watch and the type of people you have met are what you attract when you chose to create the type of person you shall to become in the future.

Don't wish that life was easier, instead, wish that you were better. Don't let others get you down and stop you from achieving what you set out to achieved. Be in charge of yourself and as you move towards your life goal, you will reap a great harvest which are meant for you. Don't wait and let luck determine your future. Complaining about life and your surrounding will not earned you anything.

Tell yourself that you are in charge and the world will not resist a person on a success path.

As you can see now, whether you are successful or end up as failure largely depends on yourself. 

"A man may fall many times but he won't be a failure until he says someone pushed him."

Therefore, learn to stand up and be courageous. Go and discover your personal unique attributes and learn to move away from your comfort zone and learn to live in the zone of discomfort. Each morning when you wake up, greet each day with love and give your gratitude and thanks for whatever you have. Learn to be comfortable with failure and mistakes as they are part  of life learning. 

Take massive action and act as if you already the person you want to create.

Remember, you are the creator of yourself, not others.

"Because you are in control of your life.  Don't ever forget that. You are what you are because of the conscious and subconscious choices you have made."

Wishing you success in creating your own future self.