Believe Self When You Are In Troubles

"You have to believe in yourself when no one

else does. That's what makes you a winner."

- Venus Williams

In many respects life is what we make it. It is our personal psychological attitude that defines our abstract level satisfaction or otherwise with our lives. Thus if we are an optimist we will see the good aspects of our environment, whilst a pessimist will only see the bad - thus the same environment is perceived differently.


When you find the world around you as dark, it never means the world itself is in dark. If you find no other way to move forward in your way to reach your destination, then create a new way. It’s your way of seeing that looks dark enough. Change your sight. Look possibilities to brighten up your living environment. Opportunities ware every where and they can be catch able when you search for them.


See when you have any problem, then try to discuss with any friends. They all try to convince you that it’s not at all a problem or atleast they may try to say its not a big deal. Why? Why don’t they find the problem as big as you see? Try to listen to your own problem with your ears from your mouth. You just spell out your problem. Define it in simple sentence. You even don’t need to think much about the solution. As you hear it, your mind analyses the problem data and triggers with certain possible solution(s). Don’t go on filtering each possibility so that after some time later you end up with no hope that your problem can’t be solved.


But... But.. But.. Before you analyze your problem go to a cool place like a garden or park or try to be near some green plants around you. Your eyes must see a green layout wherever you see. And have some snacks into your stomach. Because your brain to function well it needs some source of energy. Until then don’t think anything about your problem. Just be cool and find a place, have some thing to eat in your hands and then start clearing your confusions.


First of all the things remove your fear. You fear about what going to happen next. At any time if we fear means you are imagining some thing big. When you know the reality then nothing can get fear in you. You always fear for what happened yesterday and that may happen tomorrow. You never live today with such fears in mind. It’s time for Clarity in your Perception. Have clearly defined your visions and problems. We all know how to make a straight line look small; just draw another long straight big line beside it. So when you start seeing the big problems ahead to reach your goals, your current problems look small and very small.

"Lack of will power has caused more failure than lack of intelligence or ability."

- Flower A. Newhouse

You are the Creator

What will you become in the future will depends a lot on what you are doing to yourself now. You don't need a fortune teller to graze into a crystal ball and tells you what your future life will be.

Notice when you are asked a kid what they want to be when they grow up. Each kids will have their own different aspiration. One may want to be a doctor, another a lawyer, nurse, teacher or another vocation. Those who are not sure of what they want will purse nothing and end up not achieving anything as adult. Can you see that you are creating your own self in the future.

You can be brilliant, be number one, be unforgettable or be interesting as long as you believe that you are the creator of yourself. Once you know what you want to achieve, each little step you take daily will bring you closer to your goal. You are in charge of yourself and your life. The books you have read, the television programs that you chose to watch and the type of people you have met are what you attract when you chose to create the type of person you shall to become in the future.

Don't wish that life was easier, instead, wish that you were better. Don't let others get you down and stop you from achieving what you set out to achieved. Be in charge of yourself and as you move towards your life goal, you will reap a great harvest which are meant for you. Don't wait and let luck determine your future. Complaining about life and your surrounding will not earned you anything.

Tell yourself that you are in charge and the world will not resist a person on a success path.

As you can see now, whether you are successful or end up as failure largely depends on yourself. 

"A man may fall many times but he won't be a failure until he says someone pushed him."

Therefore, learn to stand up and be courageous. Go and discover your personal unique attributes and learn to move away from your comfort zone and learn to live in the zone of discomfort. Each morning when you wake up, greet each day with love and give your gratitude and thanks for whatever you have. Learn to be comfortable with failure and mistakes as they are part  of life learning. 

Take massive action and act as if you already the person you want to create.

Remember, you are the creator of yourself, not others.

"Because you are in control of your life.  Don't ever forget that. You are what you are because of the conscious and subconscious choices you have made."

Wishing you success in creating your own future self.

The best decision

When you live in fear of making the wrong decision, you are constantly anticipating failure. Delaying or avoiding the decision because of problems which might happen, puts you in a negative mindset. When you are controlled by fear, it focuses you on the negative. When you avoid making a decision, it makes you a passive observer and a helpless victim.

Success and achievement come from taking action. And to take action, you must first make an active decision to do so. Don't let the fear of making the wrong decision prevent you from making any decision at all.

It is very likely that you won't make a perfect decision. Seek instead to make the best decision, based on the direction you've set for yourself and the information that's available to you at the time.

Go ahead. Make the decision. Take action. If it turns out that you've made the wrong decision, you have what it takes to realize that and to make a correction. Become a positive, active participant in your future. Decide what to do and get on with it.

Self Doubt

Even the most successful people in the world are never completely satisfied with themselves. In fact, dissatisfaction can be a powerful driving force, compelling us to greater and greater levels of achievement.

The problem comes when self dissatisfaction turns into self doubt. Often, we feel frustrated or disappointed about the past, and we project those feelings into doubt about the future.

The future, however, has not happened yet. And so it makes no sense to be negative about it. The future is full of limitless possibilities. Your own future is largely under your own control. Your future is not determined by your past. It is determined by you, and by the actions you take from this point on.

Use your past disappointments not as an excuse to doubt yourself, but as a guide to improving your future. There is no reason to doubt yourself or your own abilities. In fact, the very impulse to doubt yourself is an indication that you know you can do better. Look past the doubt, past previous shortcomings, and you'll discover a bright future.