If a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking, If there is something I can do? Think up something appropriate and do it.
Do Less Thinking, and pay more attention to your heart. Do Less Acquiring, and pay more attention to what you already have. Do Less Complaining, and pay more attention to giving. Do Less Controlling, and pay more attention to letting go.
Do Less Criticizing, and pay more attention to complementing. Do Less Arguing, and pay more attention to forgiveness. Do Less Running Around, and pay more attention to stillness. Do Less Talking, and pay more attention to silence.
Showing posts with label troubles. Show all posts
Showing posts with label troubles. Show all posts
Sep 2, 2009
May 12, 2009
I Will Learn
I'm independent of good or bad opinions of others.
If I feel depressed, I will learn to cheer up.
If I feel sad, I will learn to laugh.
If I feel ill, I will learn to be healthy.
If I feel fear, I will learn to plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior, I will learn to look up to myself.
If I feel uncertain, I will learn to raise my voice.
If I feel poverty, I will learn to think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent, I will learn to think of my past success.
If I feel insignificant, I will learn to remember my goals.
I will learn to be the master of my emotions.
I will learn to change.
Apr 28, 2009
Who make a difference?
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards.
They are the ones who care for you.
Only those who care, make a difference.
To make a difference to others, care for them.
Laugh about your mistakes,
But, learn from them.
Joke over your troubles,
But, gather strength from them.
Have fun with your difficulties,
But, overcome them.
That's the way to live LIFE.
Apr 13, 2009
Believe Self When You Are In Troubles
"You have to believe in yourself when no one
else does. That's what makes you a winner."
- Venus Williams
In many respects life is what we make it. It is our personal psychological attitude that defines our abstract level satisfaction or otherwise with our lives. Thus if we are an optimist we will see the good aspects of our environment, whilst a pessimist will only see the bad - thus the same environment is perceived differently.
When you find the world around you as dark, it never means the world itself is in dark. If you find no other way to move forward in your way to reach your destination, then create a new way. It’s your way of seeing that looks dark enough. Change your sight. Look possibilities to brighten up your living environment. Opportunities ware every where and they can be catch able when you search for them.
See when you have any problem, then try to discuss with any friends. They all try to convince you that it’s not at all a problem or atleast they may try to say its not a big deal. Why? Why don’t they find the problem as big as you see? Try to listen to your own problem with your ears from your mouth. You just spell out your problem. Define it in simple sentence. You even don’t need to think much about the solution. As you hear it, your mind analyses the problem data and triggers with certain possible solution(s). Don’t go on filtering each possibility so that after some time later you end up with no hope that your problem can’t be solved.
But... But.. But.. Before you analyze your problem go to a cool place like a garden or park or try to be near some green plants around you. Your eyes must see a green layout wherever you see. And have some snacks into your stomach. Because your brain to function well it needs some source of energy. Until then don’t think anything about your problem. Just be cool and find a place, have some thing to eat in your hands and then start clearing your confusions.
First of all the things remove your fear. You fear about what going to happen next. At any time if we fear means you are imagining some thing big. When you know the reality then nothing can get fear in you. You always fear for what happened yesterday and that may happen tomorrow. You never live today with such fears in mind. It’s time for Clarity in your Perception. Have clearly defined your visions and problems. We all know how to make a straight line look small; just draw another long straight big line beside it. So when you start seeing the big problems ahead to reach your goals, your current problems look small and very small.
"Lack of will power has caused more failure than lack of intelligence or ability."
- Flower A. Newhouse
Dec 19, 2008
Self Doubt
Even the most successful people in the world are never completely satisfied with themselves. In fact, dissatisfaction can be a powerful driving force, compelling us to greater and greater levels of achievement.
The problem comes when self dissatisfaction turns into self doubt. Often, we feel frustrated or disappointed about the past, and we project those feelings into doubt about the future.
The future, however, has not happened yet. And so it makes no sense to be negative about it. The future is full of limitless possibilities. Your own future is largely under your own control. Your future is not determined by your past. It is determined by you, and by the actions you take from this point on.
Use your past disappointments not as an excuse to doubt yourself, but as a guide to improving your future. There is no reason to doubt yourself or your own abilities. In fact, the very impulse to doubt yourself is an indication that you know you can do better. Look past the doubt, past previous shortcomings, and you'll discover a bright future.
The problem comes when self dissatisfaction turns into self doubt. Often, we feel frustrated or disappointed about the past, and we project those feelings into doubt about the future.
The future, however, has not happened yet. And so it makes no sense to be negative about it. The future is full of limitless possibilities. Your own future is largely under your own control. Your future is not determined by your past. It is determined by you, and by the actions you take from this point on.
Use your past disappointments not as an excuse to doubt yourself, but as a guide to improving your future. There is no reason to doubt yourself or your own abilities. In fact, the very impulse to doubt yourself is an indication that you know you can do better. Look past the doubt, past previous shortcomings, and you'll discover a bright future.
Dec 8, 2008
Staying positive
It's easy to be positive and upbeat when things are going well. The real challenge of living with a positive focus, is when life starts handing you problem after problem. It is much more of a struggle to remain positive when there are difficulties swirling around you. Yet that is the time when a positive outlook can make the biggest difference.
Staying positive in the midst of troubles does not mean that you should live in a state of denial, refusing to even acknowledge your problems. Rather, you must clearly see the problems and all their implications, and refuse to let them get you down. Then go beyond that, and look for how you can turn the negative into a positive.
In every difficulty, there is opportunity. In order to see that opportunity, you must look for it. That means looking clearly and objectively at the problem, free of self pity or wishful thinking.
You can be positive, no matter what. Don't deny your problems, and don't let them deny you.
"The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want"
Staying positive in the midst of troubles does not mean that you should live in a state of denial, refusing to even acknowledge your problems. Rather, you must clearly see the problems and all their implications, and refuse to let them get you down. Then go beyond that, and look for how you can turn the negative into a positive.
In every difficulty, there is opportunity. In order to see that opportunity, you must look for it. That means looking clearly and objectively at the problem, free of self pity or wishful thinking.
You can be positive, no matter what. Don't deny your problems, and don't let them deny you.
"The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want"
Dec 2, 2008
Accountable
Life holds us accountable whether we like it or not. Every action produces irrefutable consequences. And though we may try to hide from those consequences, in the end they always catch up to us.
What will you do today to uphold the responsibility you have to your own possibilities? What about in the next twenty minutes? What consequences will your actions produce?
Hold yourself accountable, and the consequences work in your favor. Accept the responsibility for your own life, and you gain control of your own destiny. It's easy, and often very reasonable, to blame your troubles on something or someone outside yourself. It's easy to expect other people, or changing conditions, to solve your problems for you. It's easy to expect dumb luck to bring fulfillment into your life. Easy, and yet sadly misguided.
Ultimately, only you can be accountable for you. It is a serious responsibility and a boundless opportunity.
" Affirm the positive, visualize the positive and expect the positive, and your life will change accordingly."
What will you do today to uphold the responsibility you have to your own possibilities? What about in the next twenty minutes? What consequences will your actions produce?
Hold yourself accountable, and the consequences work in your favor. Accept the responsibility for your own life, and you gain control of your own destiny. It's easy, and often very reasonable, to blame your troubles on something or someone outside yourself. It's easy to expect other people, or changing conditions, to solve your problems for you. It's easy to expect dumb luck to bring fulfillment into your life. Easy, and yet sadly misguided.
Ultimately, only you can be accountable for you. It is a serious responsibility and a boundless opportunity.
" Affirm the positive, visualize the positive and expect the positive, and your life will change accordingly."
Oct 23, 2008
Surpass yourself
No matter how good life is, it can always be better. No matter how far you've come, there is always room for growth. No matter what you know, there is always something to learn.
What have you done today to surpass yourself? What can you do right now that will challenge yourself to higher and higher accomplishment? If you look, you'll find plenty of ways to surpass yourself. No one knows better than you how to make the best of what you have. Start a positive spiral upwards. You have what it takes to make tomorrow even brighter than today.
If you constantly look over your shoulder and compare yourself to others, it can hold you back. Focusing on what you don't have leads to a mentality of lack and limitation. Instead, concentrate on what you do have, and on how to make it even better. Seek not to put yourself down, but rather to surpass yourself. Strive to improve on your own performance. The most effective competitors are those who set their own challenges and then surpass them.
What have you done today to surpass yourself? What can you do right now that will challenge yourself to higher and higher accomplishment? If you look, you'll find plenty of ways to surpass yourself. No one knows better than you how to make the best of what you have. Start a positive spiral upwards. You have what it takes to make tomorrow even brighter than today.
If you constantly look over your shoulder and compare yourself to others, it can hold you back. Focusing on what you don't have leads to a mentality of lack and limitation. Instead, concentrate on what you do have, and on how to make it even better. Seek not to put yourself down, but rather to surpass yourself. Strive to improve on your own performance. The most effective competitors are those who set their own challenges and then surpass them.
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