If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain. Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.
None of us knows what the next change is going to be, what unexpected opportunity is just around the corner, waiting a few months or a few years to change all the tenor of our lives. We live in a moment of history where change is so speeded up that we begin to see the present only when it is already disappearing.
If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living.The universe is change; our life is what our thoughts make it.
Sep 25, 2009
Sep 7, 2009
Welcome criticism
When you are sincere in your efforts, you have nothing to fear from criticism. For when you are sincere, criticism can make you stronger and more effective.
Listen eagerly to those who disagree with you. Seek to genuinely understand their perspectives.
Don't get caught up in the need to prove you are right. Focus instead on more fully understanding what is true, what is workable, and what is best for everyone.
The willingness to be open to criticism is one of the surest signs that you're on a successful and authentic path. If you feel the need to avoid or evade or ignore your critics, it may well be time to re-evaluate your efforts.
Intelligently responding to the doubts of others will reduce your own doubts and help your confidence grow. From the criticism, you can gain much valuable and useful information.
Welcome the criticism, and respond with sincere gratitude. Being challenged is one of the most enriching experiences you can have.
Listen eagerly to those who disagree with you. Seek to genuinely understand their perspectives.
Don't get caught up in the need to prove you are right. Focus instead on more fully understanding what is true, what is workable, and what is best for everyone.
The willingness to be open to criticism is one of the surest signs that you're on a successful and authentic path. If you feel the need to avoid or evade or ignore your critics, it may well be time to re-evaluate your efforts.
Intelligently responding to the doubts of others will reduce your own doubts and help your confidence grow. From the criticism, you can gain much valuable and useful information.
Welcome the criticism, and respond with sincere gratitude. Being challenged is one of the most enriching experiences you can have.
Sep 2, 2009
Do Less
If a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking, If there is something I can do? Think up something appropriate and do it.
Do Less Thinking, and pay more attention to your heart. Do Less Acquiring, and pay more attention to what you already have. Do Less Complaining, and pay more attention to giving. Do Less Controlling, and pay more attention to letting go.
Do Less Criticizing, and pay more attention to complementing. Do Less Arguing, and pay more attention to forgiveness. Do Less Running Around, and pay more attention to stillness. Do Less Talking, and pay more attention to silence.
Do Less Thinking, and pay more attention to your heart. Do Less Acquiring, and pay more attention to what you already have. Do Less Complaining, and pay more attention to giving. Do Less Controlling, and pay more attention to letting go.
Do Less Criticizing, and pay more attention to complementing. Do Less Arguing, and pay more attention to forgiveness. Do Less Running Around, and pay more attention to stillness. Do Less Talking, and pay more attention to silence.
Aug 31, 2009
Let fear go
Fear is powerful, and yet it is fragile. Though it can stop you cold, fear can be gone in an instant when you decide you've had enough of it.
Fear is a very effective way for you to get your own attention. Then as soon as you're fully aware of a fear and what it has to say, you have no more use for it.
Let the fear advise you and prepare you, and then just let it go. It is nothing more than a thought over which you have full control.
When fear is what holds you back, there's a quick way forward. Accept the fear, feel it, learn from it, and then drop it completely from your mind.
By letting go of fear, you transform it into courage. In this way, you put the power of that fear to positive use.
Boldly step through each fear, then move on past it. And feel the strength that you've just gained.
Fear is a very effective way for you to get your own attention. Then as soon as you're fully aware of a fear and what it has to say, you have no more use for it.
Let the fear advise you and prepare you, and then just let it go. It is nothing more than a thought over which you have full control.
When fear is what holds you back, there's a quick way forward. Accept the fear, feel it, learn from it, and then drop it completely from your mind.
By letting go of fear, you transform it into courage. In this way, you put the power of that fear to positive use.
Boldly step through each fear, then move on past it. And feel the strength that you've just gained.
Aug 16, 2009
Do Your Best
We often say that we want a peaceful life. We wish to be at a place where there is no noise, no trouble, or no hard work.But this does not actually mean Peace. To be in the midst of all chaos of life, and still be calm in your heart is what "peace" is.
Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams.
Together we can change the world!
Believe in yourself and in your dream though impossible things may seem, Someday, somehow you'll get through to the goal you have in view.
Mountains fall and seas divide before the one who in his stride. Takes a hard road day by day sweeping obstacles away.
Believe in yourself and in your plan. Say not - I cannot but, I can. The prizes of life we fail to win, because we doubt the power within.
Mountains fall and seas divide before the one who in his stride. Takes a hard road day by day sweeping obstacles away.
Believe in yourself and in your plan. Say not - I cannot but, I can. The prizes of life we fail to win, because we doubt the power within.
May 25, 2009
Wake up
If you want to make your dreams come true, wake up.
Wake up to your own strength. Wake up to the role you play in your own destiny. Wake up to the power you have to choose what you think, do, and say.
Look around the unlimited opportunities awaiting.Catch them up. Choose the right opportunity that makes your dreams come true. Never compromise for portion of your dreams come true. if you dream then achieve 100% of it.
We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope. Feel Good and Go ahead with winning attitude, Success is yours. Lets start the Game!!!
Wish you all Success.
:)
Wake up to your own strength. Wake up to the role you play in your own destiny. Wake up to the power you have to choose what you think, do, and say.
Look around the unlimited opportunities awaiting.Catch them up. Choose the right opportunity that makes your dreams come true. Never compromise for portion of your dreams come true. if you dream then achieve 100% of it.
We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope. Feel Good and Go ahead with winning attitude, Success is yours. Lets start the Game!!!
Wish you all Success.
:)
May 13, 2009
The measure of life...
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;You can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
Don't count the years, count the memories.... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!
May 12, 2009
Effort is a blessing
Difficult is nothing more than an arbitrary judgment. Effort is effort, and you can do it if you choose.
A great achievement requires much effort. Yet that effort is difficult only when you see it as such.
Instead of obsessing over how difficult or easy it is, just do it. Focus on the result and, what's even more important, your reason for making it happen.
Every effort is a blessing. For effort enables you to live the life you choose to live.
You have the priceless opportunity of being able to do what it takes. Put joy in the effort, whatever it may be, and reap the rewards of making a difference.
Welcome the effort and all the value it gives you the opportunity to create.
Not being able to do everything is no excuse for not doing everything you can.
I Will Learn
I'm independent of good or bad opinions of others.
If I feel depressed, I will learn to cheer up.
If I feel sad, I will learn to laugh.
If I feel ill, I will learn to be healthy.
If I feel fear, I will learn to plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior, I will learn to look up to myself.
If I feel uncertain, I will learn to raise my voice.
If I feel poverty, I will learn to think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent, I will learn to think of my past success.
If I feel insignificant, I will learn to remember my goals.
I will learn to be the master of my emotions.
I will learn to change.
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