Who make a difference?

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards.

They are the ones who care for you.
Only those who care, make a difference.
To make a difference to others, care for them.

Laugh about your mistakes,

But, learn from them.

Joke over your troubles,

But, gather strength from them.

Have fun with your difficulties,

But, overcome them.

That's the way to live LIFE.

Believe Self When You Are In Troubles

"You have to believe in yourself when no one

else does. That's what makes you a winner."

- Venus Williams

In many respects life is what we make it. It is our personal psychological attitude that defines our abstract level satisfaction or otherwise with our lives. Thus if we are an optimist we will see the good aspects of our environment, whilst a pessimist will only see the bad - thus the same environment is perceived differently.


When you find the world around you as dark, it never means the world itself is in dark. If you find no other way to move forward in your way to reach your destination, then create a new way. It’s your way of seeing that looks dark enough. Change your sight. Look possibilities to brighten up your living environment. Opportunities ware every where and they can be catch able when you search for them.


See when you have any problem, then try to discuss with any friends. They all try to convince you that it’s not at all a problem or atleast they may try to say its not a big deal. Why? Why don’t they find the problem as big as you see? Try to listen to your own problem with your ears from your mouth. You just spell out your problem. Define it in simple sentence. You even don’t need to think much about the solution. As you hear it, your mind analyses the problem data and triggers with certain possible solution(s). Don’t go on filtering each possibility so that after some time later you end up with no hope that your problem can’t be solved.


But... But.. But.. Before you analyze your problem go to a cool place like a garden or park or try to be near some green plants around you. Your eyes must see a green layout wherever you see. And have some snacks into your stomach. Because your brain to function well it needs some source of energy. Until then don’t think anything about your problem. Just be cool and find a place, have some thing to eat in your hands and then start clearing your confusions.


First of all the things remove your fear. You fear about what going to happen next. At any time if we fear means you are imagining some thing big. When you know the reality then nothing can get fear in you. You always fear for what happened yesterday and that may happen tomorrow. You never live today with such fears in mind. It’s time for Clarity in your Perception. Have clearly defined your visions and problems. We all know how to make a straight line look small; just draw another long straight big line beside it. So when you start seeing the big problems ahead to reach your goals, your current problems look small and very small.

"Lack of will power has caused more failure than lack of intelligence or ability."

- Flower A. Newhouse

Sri Rama's Principles for Happy Life

1. Remain wakeful and make a constant conscious effort to speak the Truth with your physical and mental organ of speech.


2. Sound health is a very useful aid in one's spiritual progress. Thus try to keep your physical body healthy by eating properly and exercising regularly.


3. Chant constantly the name of God with each breath in and out, faithfully and devotedly keeping your goal in mind and remaining wakeful.


4. Avoid the habit of taking intoxicating drugs or alcohol which gives rise to lethargy.


5. No power on earth can take away my cheerfulness, courage and joy. Let this conviction be an inseparable part of your life. Try to always remain cheerful and happy.


6. As far as possible try to be helpful and charitable to others with your physical actions, beneficial positive thoughts and agreeable speech. Do not hurt any one's heart.


7. Holy company, righteous thoughts the study of the sacred scriptures and good behavior are the four things to be practiced respectfully in life always.


8. No matter what inconvenience and pain you may have to undergo, never ever hate others, especially your near and dear ones. Make a continuous effort not to be disturbed, disappointed and restless.


9. Leave aside laziness. With enthusiasm and regularity observe the disciplines of the spiritual practices and other observances for the complete development of the personality.


10. With the remembrance of God and a pure, guileless and cheerful smile, try to perform your daily activities in the Light of Fearlessness, Unity and Bliss of that Supreme Being.



A life lived - based on these ten principles will become enlightened and perfectly happy!

Challenge Life

Life is largely a matter of expectation. If you want to succeed, you must expect to succeed. Expectation energizes your goals and gives them momentum. When you believe something good can happen, it will happen

Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does he give them the opportunity to be patient? If he prays for courage, does God give him courage, or does he give him opportunities to be courageous? If someone prayed for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does he give them opportunities to love each other?

Look people in the eye, don’t stare, don’t be so intense, laugh more, smile more, if you smile too much people won’t take you seriously.“You have a good word for everybody”.

There are no problems, only solutions, no obstacles only challenges. Try, try again, keep trying, if you had any talent at all you would have made it by now, why don’t you find something else to do. Rise above it all, take a breather, be realistic, pay attention, heal yourself. See, the problem with you is. . .

Happiness is reachable, no matter how long it lasts .

We should stop making our lives complicated.

Life is short

Break the rules

Forgive quickly

Laugh constantly

And never stop smiling,

no matter how strange life is.

Life is not always the party we expected to be ,

but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

Life always gives u the best

:)

You are the Creator

What will you become in the future will depends a lot on what you are doing to yourself now. You don't need a fortune teller to graze into a crystal ball and tells you what your future life will be.

Notice when you are asked a kid what they want to be when they grow up. Each kids will have their own different aspiration. One may want to be a doctor, another a lawyer, nurse, teacher or another vocation. Those who are not sure of what they want will purse nothing and end up not achieving anything as adult. Can you see that you are creating your own self in the future.

You can be brilliant, be number one, be unforgettable or be interesting as long as you believe that you are the creator of yourself. Once you know what you want to achieve, each little step you take daily will bring you closer to your goal. You are in charge of yourself and your life. The books you have read, the television programs that you chose to watch and the type of people you have met are what you attract when you chose to create the type of person you shall to become in the future.

Don't wish that life was easier, instead, wish that you were better. Don't let others get you down and stop you from achieving what you set out to achieved. Be in charge of yourself and as you move towards your life goal, you will reap a great harvest which are meant for you. Don't wait and let luck determine your future. Complaining about life and your surrounding will not earned you anything.

Tell yourself that you are in charge and the world will not resist a person on a success path.

As you can see now, whether you are successful or end up as failure largely depends on yourself. 

"A man may fall many times but he won't be a failure until he says someone pushed him."

Therefore, learn to stand up and be courageous. Go and discover your personal unique attributes and learn to move away from your comfort zone and learn to live in the zone of discomfort. Each morning when you wake up, greet each day with love and give your gratitude and thanks for whatever you have. Learn to be comfortable with failure and mistakes as they are part  of life learning. 

Take massive action and act as if you already the person you want to create.

Remember, you are the creator of yourself, not others.

"Because you are in control of your life.  Don't ever forget that. You are what you are because of the conscious and subconscious choices you have made."

Wishing you success in creating your own future self.

Secret to Confidence

There can be no great courage when there is no confidence or assurance.

Half the battle is in the conviction that you can accomplish what you undertake.

Confidence doesn't come out of no where. It's the result of constant work and dedication.

With practice you'll come toa point of competence. you'll find yourself accomplishing your goals gracefully and confidently.It's then taht you'll do things that you never dreamed you could do. You will discover powers you never knew existed.

When you are prepared, you're able to feel confident.

So the secret to confidence is PREPARATION.

Wishing you all Happy Colorful Holi.....

Confident expectation

In ways you can clearly see and in ways you'll never understand, your expectations become your reality. What you expect most sincerely and persistently, you experience.

All that is within you constantly works to meet the expectations you set for yourself and for your world. You will see, and hear, and touch, and taste, and learn, and achieve whatever you expect.

When those around you are filled with dismay, it is easy to expect the worst. Yet surprisingly, it is just as easy to expect the best when you simply choose to do so, and a whole lot more beneficial.

Begin each day with the confident expectation of specific achievements. At the end of the day, most of those expectations will have been met.

Expectation compels you to find a way. Expectation taps into the large and rich store of resources in your life.

Expect the best of yourself and of those around you. For you truly have the power to make those expectations real.

Use Discipline

Discipline is one of your most powerful tools.

Use it to your advantage.Discipline is nothing more than controlling your own behavior. And you've been doing that your whole life.

You have the power to make your own choices and to follow those choices. So make those choices the ones that will raise your life to greater and greater heights.

Every day you have the opportunity to grow stronger. Every moment you have the opportunity to make solid progress.

Use the discipline that is yours to seize those opportunities. Exercise the sweet control over your own actions that will bring great fulfillment to your days.

In discipline is enormous power to which you already have access. Choose to use it, again and again, and there is no limit to the rewards it will bring.

Turnaround

Can you imagine transforming your greatest frustrations into valuable and lasting accomplishments? When you can imagine it, you have what's necessary to begin to do it.

Some of life's greatest achievements come from understanding what's holding you back and acting to turn it around. There is great transforming energy in frustration, and that power is just waiting to be put to good and positive use.

Each weakness is an opportunity to develop new strength. Every disappointment can help build your desire and commitment to success.

Many great fortunes have been created by those who were able to turn around difficult and challenging situations. What valuable opportunities for turnaround exist in your own life right now?

There is always much room for improvement. The frustrations, shortcomings, pains and annoyances clearly point the way for improving your life and your world.

Instead of regretting or complaining about what's wrong, choose to make positive use of what is. And transform life into the best you can imagine.