This blog is mainly about personal development. The secret of winning in life lies in seeing life differently - in its different shades and outcomes. For winners life is not a tedious journey from the womb to the tomb. It is a journey about crossing milestones and looking forward to new ones. The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can, I will, and I am,"
May 25, 2009
Wake up
Wake up to your own strength. Wake up to the role you play in your own destiny. Wake up to the power you have to choose what you think, do, and say.
Look around the unlimited opportunities awaiting.Catch them up. Choose the right opportunity that makes your dreams come true. Never compromise for portion of your dreams come true. if you dream then achieve 100% of it.
We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope. Feel Good and Go ahead with winning attitude, Success is yours. Lets start the Game!!!
Wish you all Success.
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May 13, 2009
The measure of life...
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;You can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
Don't count the years, count the memories.... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!
May 12, 2009
Effort is a blessing
Difficult is nothing more than an arbitrary judgment. Effort is effort, and you can do it if you choose.
A great achievement requires much effort. Yet that effort is difficult only when you see it as such.
Instead of obsessing over how difficult or easy it is, just do it. Focus on the result and, what's even more important, your reason for making it happen.
Every effort is a blessing. For effort enables you to live the life you choose to live.
You have the priceless opportunity of being able to do what it takes. Put joy in the effort, whatever it may be, and reap the rewards of making a difference.
Welcome the effort and all the value it gives you the opportunity to create.
Not being able to do everything is no excuse for not doing everything you can.
I Will Learn
I'm independent of good or bad opinions of others.
If I feel depressed, I will learn to cheer up.
If I feel sad, I will learn to laugh.
If I feel ill, I will learn to be healthy.
If I feel fear, I will learn to plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior, I will learn to look up to myself.
If I feel uncertain, I will learn to raise my voice.
If I feel poverty, I will learn to think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent, I will learn to think of my past success.
If I feel insignificant, I will learn to remember my goals.
I will learn to be the master of my emotions.
I will learn to change.
Apr 28, 2009
Who make a difference?
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards.
They are the ones who care for you.
Only those who care, make a difference.
To make a difference to others, care for them.
Laugh about your mistakes,
But, learn from them.
Joke over your troubles,
But, gather strength from them.
Have fun with your difficulties,
But, overcome them.
That's the way to live LIFE.
Apr 13, 2009
Believe Self When You Are In Troubles
In many respects life is what we make it. It is our personal psychological attitude that defines our abstract level satisfaction or otherwise with our lives. Thus if we are an optimist we will see the good aspects of our environment, whilst a pessimist will only see the bad - thus the same environment is perceived differently.
When you find the world around you as dark, it never means the world itself is in dark. If you find no other way to move forward in your way to reach your destination, then create a new way. It’s your way of seeing that looks dark enough. Change your sight. Look possibilities to brighten up your living environment. Opportunities ware every where and they can be catch able when you search for them.
See when you have any problem, then try to discuss with any friends. They all try to convince you that it’s not at all a problem or atleast they may try to say its not a big deal. Why? Why don’t they find the problem as big as you see? Try to listen to your own problem with your ears from your mouth. You just spell out your problem. Define it in simple sentence. You even don’t need to think much about the solution. As you hear it, your mind analyses the problem data and triggers with certain possible solution(s). Don’t go on filtering each possibility so that after some time later you end up with no hope that your problem can’t be solved.
But... But.. But.. Before you analyze your problem go to a cool place like a garden or park or try to be near some green plants around you. Your eyes must see a green layout wherever you see. And have some snacks into your stomach. Because your brain to function well it needs some source of energy. Until then don’t think anything about your problem. Just be cool and find a place, have some thing to eat in your hands and then start clearing your confusions.
First of all the things remove your fear. You fear about what going to happen next. At any time if we fear means you are imagining some thing big. When you know the reality then nothing can get fear in you. You always fear for what happened yesterday and that may happen tomorrow. You never live today with such fears in mind. It’s time for Clarity in your Perception. Have clearly defined your visions and problems. We all know how to make a straight line look small; just draw another long straight big line beside it. So when you start seeing the big problems ahead to reach your goals, your current problems look small and very small.
Apr 3, 2009
Sri Rama's Principles for Happy Life
2. Sound health is a very useful aid in one's spiritual progress. Thus try to keep your physical body healthy by eating properly and exercising regularly.
3. Chant constantly the name of God with each breath in and out, faithfully and devotedly keeping your goal in mind and remaining wakeful.
4. Avoid the habit of taking intoxicating drugs or alcohol which gives rise to lethargy.
5. No power on earth can take away my cheerfulness, courage and joy. Let this conviction be an inseparable part of your life. Try to always remain cheerful and happy.
6. As far as possible try to be helpful and charitable to others with your physical actions, beneficial positive thoughts and agreeable speech. Do not hurt any one's heart.
7. Holy company, righteous thoughts the study of the sacred scriptures and good behavior are the four things to be practiced respectfully in life always.
8. No matter what inconvenience and pain you may have to undergo, never ever hate others, especially your near and dear ones. Make a continuous effort not to be disturbed, disappointed and restless.
9. Leave aside laziness. With enthusiasm and regularity observe the disciplines of the spiritual practices and other observances for the complete development of the personality.
10. With the remembrance of God and a pure, guileless and cheerful smile, try to perform your daily activities in the Light of Fearlessness, Unity and Bliss of that Supreme Being.
A life lived - based on these ten principles will become enlightened and perfectly happy!
Mar 25, 2009
Challenge Life
Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does he give them the opportunity to be patient? If he prays for courage, does God give him courage, or does he give him opportunities to be courageous? If someone prayed for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does he give them opportunities to love each other?
Look people in the eye, don’t stare, don’t be so intense, laugh more, smile more, if you smile too much people won’t take you seriously.“You have a good word for everybody”.
There are no problems, only solutions, no obstacles only challenges. Try, try again, keep trying, if you had any talent at all you would have made it by now, why don’t you find something else to do. Rise above it all, take a breather, be realistic, pay attention, heal yourself. See, the problem with you is. . .
Life always gives u the best
Mar 18, 2009
You are the Creator
"A man may fall many times but he won't be a failure until he says someone pushed him."
Therefore, learn to stand up and be courageous. Go and discover your personal unique attributes and learn to move away from your comfort zone and learn to live in the zone of discomfort. Each morning when you wake up, greet each day with love and give your gratitude and thanks for whatever you have. Learn to be comfortable with failure and mistakes as they are part of life learning.
"Because you are in control of your life. Don't ever forget that. You are what you are because of the conscious and subconscious choices you have made."
Mar 16, 2009
Secret to Confidence
Half the battle is in the conviction that you can accomplish what you undertake.
Confidence doesn't come out of no where. It's the result of constant work and dedication.
With practice you'll come toa point of competence. you'll find yourself accomplishing your goals gracefully and confidently.It's then taht you'll do things that you never dreamed you could do. You will discover powers you never knew existed.
When you are prepared, you're able to feel confident.
So the secret to confidence is PREPARATION.